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writes: my boyfriend seems to hate my family and is really against them. i really love him and want him to love them back. what should i do? please help me Reply to this Question
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reader, Jovial  +, writes (31 October 2006):
 I agree with anon, you must end the relationship because you will always be bothered by this and sooner or later it will divide you, Why he can hate your family and love you its beyond me, I dont think he does love dearly. Did you ask him why he feels the way he does? Does your backround influence his feelings? but even if it does still his behavior cant be excused.
Tell him to be honest with you maybe there is a history between your families you dont know about and he does but cant bring himself to telling you. Find out what it is.
If you want to keep him find a way of dealing with this maybe ignore his comments but for how much longer? because hating his family is not gonna help u at all it will just make u bitter and he might despise u leading to a very messy breakup. Plis answer those questions and we can take it from there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2006): Personally, if this were me I would just end the relationship. Your family are important and always going to be there for you. You could try talking to him if you haven't done so already. How do you cope with him family? Maybe you could act how he acts when it comes to your family and let him see how it feels. If he's not even willing to try to get on with your family then he's really not worth being with
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