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writes: I really do need some relationship advice.I have been with my current boyfriend for 2 and a half years and we have never had a easy ride of it.He has 2 children and a ex girlfriend that is a pain.I have been married befor and have 1 child.The question is:-My boyfriend pushes me a way sexually when i want a cuddle or kiss as he thinks all i want is sex.I do however have a high sex drive and his has gone down hill.Instead of 3-4 times a week im lucky to make love once a week.He only kisses me when he wants sex and only wants to be touched the way he wants and pushes me away or shouts if i try and tease or fool around with him.When we do have sex i feel like i should just lay there and just let him do it and get it over with as i feel that if i touch him he will get moody again.I have spoken to him on many occasions but he says he wants everybody to get off his back and that he has no "me" time.He has become even more moody and shuts himself away emotionally.I cant go on like this as i feel unattractive,useless and unfulfilled.Please help me. its making me very unhappy.JEWELS
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Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A reader, Serafin, writes (21 March 2005): HI there,It seems as though your bf has something on his mind that needs adressing. This could be stress from work, the children or even the ex gf. I could go on and generally guess what's wrong but the only way you can truly find out is by asking him.Create a calm and suitable atmosphere so you can ask him what's wrong. Be prepared to hear things you might not expect.This I think is not a problem you are creating because according what you have written, everybody has noticed his mood changes. So that's why I think it's something affecting him that nobody knows about.I symphathise with the fact that you feel you just have to let him get on top and have his way because really if you're not enjoying it as you truly deserve, because after all its your body, then you should not do it at all. Maybe doing that will send him a message and make him realise his personal problems are now effecting you.Please send me an e-mail to let me know how it goesSerafin
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