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My bf has had sex before, now he wants me to sleep with him for my first time but I'm scared...

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Question - (10 October 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 October 2008)
A female Austria age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I have a bofriend that had sex oready but i didnt have sex if him jet he said come i make your frist time speacil I want to but i am scread that he will hurt me or just want to have sexwith me.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2008):

You're between 36-40 and haven't had sex yet?

What the hell are you waiting for? It's gonna hurt the first time. In the majority of cases it does anyway.

But it gets better and better with time.

Seriously, I haven't yet and I'm 25 and I thought THAT was pathetic.

Still to each his own. And if it was a choice made out of your own moral standards then I could understand. But out of fear?

It's time to suck it up and let it happen, woman.

Flynn 24

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A female reader, gembo United Kingdom +, writes (10 October 2008):

if your not ready for sex then i suggest dont do it you have to be sure your with the right person before deciding to take a big step like that.If he is pushing you to do it then i suggest walk away from the relationship you should not be forced into doing something you dont want to do.I hope this advice is good for you.

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