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My bf has a fetish with bestiality. Is this normal?

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Question - (9 January 2008) 8 Answers - (Newest, 18 January 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I recently discovered my boyfriend of 2 months has a huge fetish with beastiality. Is this normal?! Personally, it grosses me out..

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A male reader, diabloman80 United States +, writes (18 January 2009):

Ok, well honestly, it isn't normal by standards that normal society have set forth, but there is a huge amount of people who are into this, if you like him, don't be stereotypical and say "yuck" and dump him, just tell him not to do anything like that, or look at anything like that around you, we all have our little kinks that get us off, i am also into bestiality, and i find it normal, just look at this website, at the number of registered members, you don't have to look through the site, but this just reinforces what i said, maybe it will change your view of the topic at hand.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2008):

its not normal at all my current bf did it all the time and i mean i caught him in the act on a number of occasions and he still denys it till this day it makes me feel sick that he could even do this to me and now i feel stuck wiv him coz i had his kids two years ago. he makes me feel sick!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2008):

i think the beastiality fetish has more to do with his outlook on women than on the animals themself. i found the same thing on my ex bfs computer (completely by accident) and they all involved animals doing their stuff with women. its all about total domination of the woman. this also fit in with my ex's other fetishes of anal and wanting women to be his sex slave/ take orders etc. i cant answer if it's noraml or not. what is normal? quiet a few people might be into it, but just dont discuss it. personally, it grosses me out and seriously makes me feel queasy. but just because your bf watches it doesnt mean he wants to perform it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2008):

My opinion is that if he looked at it a couple of times out of curiosity then don't worry. If he has a fetish about it and looks at it a lot then he has a problem that has to be addressed. Curiosity is one thing, but a great desire for something that far out of the mainstream means that he might have a problem with how he thinks of women. Just a gress on the last part.

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A female reader, hello1 United Kingdom +, writes (9 January 2008):

hello1 agony auntThis isn't common or normal. You got a strange one on your hands! You might have to be careful he dosen't give any of your pets the eye! make sure you don't ever visit the zoo or a farm.

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (9 January 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntNo! It is not normal.It is an aberration.The Bible forbids it.

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A male reader, Dr Vendetta United Kingdom +, writes (9 January 2008):

Dr Vendetta agony auntok personally i haven't seen the infamous " Animal Farm " but knowing its a porno.. you kinda get the idea what's gonna happen.

theres always that morbid curiosity with the Taboo, much like a train wreck or a car crash. you know you shouldn't look..But you just can't help it.

A Huge fetish?...

well it does take all sorts world wide, i am pretty open to most things. with in reason. Animals... well i'll stick to screwing Like an animal than actually screwing them liturally.

It is Commen?..yeah

is it normal... depends on what you define of normal.. so no comment.

i don't believe any Fetish is i guess we woulnd't considering them fetishes or taboo. they'd just be like having toast or a shower.

it really all depends on how you feel about it

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A male reader, emad khan Spain +, writes (9 January 2008):

emad khan agony auntdo you think its normal? No its not normal. Your boyfriend has some issues.

He's most likely not going to change. You may have to leave him, and hope for his sake that he'll meet someone thats more into the whole, animal thing...

chances are, its just some childish facination. But, in all honesty, I don't really know anyone genuinely interested in bestiality. If your boyfriend is really interested in animals, I'd say get yourself a normal guy...which may involve

some self examination aswell. What attracted you to this guy in the first place.

You may even say, that, the men you choose are a reflection of yourself (or oneself, rather- I'm speaking generally here.) Why are you attracted to strange guys? well...good luck on that one...

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