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writes:My boyfriend does not treat my like he use to he ignores me and does not make me feel loved like he use to is it because he lost interest in me? Reply to this Question
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reader, kerance  +, writes (7 June 2010):
hey:) im in a similar suituation. and i askd my boyfriend out right what was going on. he said that he hadnt gone off me he loves me just the same but he has me now. he's comftable in our relationship and doesnt see the point in makin much effort.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2010): That could be the case or he may have gotten comfortable with you and is being really lazy. Many guys do and say all those sweet things at the beggining to make you really like them and want to be with them. As soon as they know you love them, they feel they "have" you and don't need to put in as much effort anymore. I guess you could say they start to take you for granted. This isn't all guys but many in my experience do this. Also a lot of times the girl starts to become dependent on the guy in a lot of ways which could be suffocating for him. Laetitia is correct in suggesting for you to distance yourslef. If you are always available to hang out with him whenever he wants, make other plans so he needs to start competing for your time again. It is very true that guys like the cahse. They are competative by nature so try little sneaky ways to make it like a competition for him.
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reader, laetitia  +, writes (7 June 2010):
 It might be. I have also had the same problem many times. Best thing to do is to distance yourself a bit. Take a trip on the weekend without him.
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