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My best friend told my deepest secrets to my worst enemy!

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Question - (7 October 2007) 6 Answers - (Newest, 25 May 2008)
A male Switzerland age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Alright. This isnt really a problem with the girl i like, its more a friend problem, but i have nowhere else to turn. My best friend, who has always been there for me and who I have poured my deepest secrets to told pretty much my worst enemy almost everything. I know that pretty much everyone is going to know everything about me that i dont want to get out about me in days, but thats not whats bothering me. My friend has been begging me to trust her again, but I dont know if i can risk it. I have always valued her advice, but i dont know whether its worth trusting her again. please help...

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2008):

never trust her again

she is totally untrustable and the reason why she is begging you to trust her again is because she will do the same thing over and over.

she is vicious, get her out of your life now!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2008):

that is exactly what happened to me! I tried to trust my mate again but it just kept happening!!!! I was sick of it. Eventually we split up, just for afew months though. She seems to have learned how to be a REAL friend now! Dont worry!!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2007):

Poor you, what a nightmare. I would not trust this so called friend with anything confidential ever again. You can be pals and still get advice but only confide stuff that you would be ok about if she blabbed again!xx

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A female reader, sexi South Africa +, writes (8 October 2007):

sexi agony auntHi

I dont think she is a real friend. I wouldnt trust her. If you wanna be her you can but i dont think that you should tell her much anymore.Finf other friends that can kepp secrets. Good Luck,

Regards,mail me if you wanna talk

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A female reader, L.O.S.E.R. Serbia +, writes (7 October 2007):

L.O.S.E.R. agony auntOut of her it's very crapy thing to do.I wouldn't trust that kind of person ever again but if you feel good while hanging out together (must be great since you're asking this question) no problem,forgive it.But DON'T ever forget it cause someone who does something that bad once easily could repeat the similar thing.Of course don't tell her a secret ever again.I'm so sorry for the inconvinience-know I'd be so fucked up if something like that happened to me:(xxx

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A female reader, Mystic Moo United Kingdom +, writes (7 October 2007):

Mystic Moo agony auntNo way should you trust that girl! It's one thing her telling all your deepest secrets to someone, but the fact that she told your worst enemy the secrets is just out of order! A true friend wouldn't have done that, let alone a best friend.

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