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writes: Hi.i'm 14 and i'm facing problems with my best friend.we were best friends for a long time and we have some amazing memories and many crazy things we've done together,we were as close as it gets.but my friend, got a boyfriend and started keeping a distance!now she only cares about her boyfriend and hangs out at school with this other girl.we are still friends but not as close as we used to be!also she has chenged a lot!She has a diffrent attitude towards everything and her behaviour is really weird!i talked to her about the way she has forgotten about me and we ended up fighting and she started accusing me of many things , like that i think everything is about me and my problems or that since we were best friends she started fighting with everyone!now we are supposed to be "fine" but it;s all wrong.i feel sad about it and i don't know what to do!please help me somebody.......
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reader, mitta  +, writes (14 November 2006):
hey, sorry that this is happening to you. You're friend is suffering what many people do (especially young girls)when they have their first real relationship. Your friend probably loves or thinks she loves her boyfriend and is probably keen to keep him. She probably thinks she has to please him by spending as much time with him as she can and being friends with his friends, which means you are excluded a lot of the time. Unfortunately im not sure what you can do really. You have tried talking to her and she doesnt seem to understand. I understand totally how you feel. I used to have a best friend, then she got a boyfriend and started spending all her time with him. Eventually we stopped talking when she left school. To this day I feel hurt by what happened. Keep trying and dont give up being her friend. In all likeliness the boyfriend wont last long and she'll want a true friend to pick up the pieces. We all do silly things when we're in love. Im sure she cares about you.
Good luck
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