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reader, largentsgirl89  +, writes (15 November 2010):
 She sounds very unreasonable and controlling. How does she come into the visitations he has with his children if they are at his house? Can he not set up visitation where he comes and gets them and then he drops them off, so you and his baby's mama don't have to see each other at all? She sounds like a whiny 12 yr old. If not, I think if you trust him and his love for you then you should be ok with him going over to her house to see his kids. He gets to come home to you does he not?
If you are just tired of everything and don't feel you can handle her anymore, then yes I would get out of the relationship. There is only so much one person can take before they snap.
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reader, ms cary +, writes (14 November 2010):
ms cary is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe has set up visitaion and that went downhill.the baby momma and i can not get along when it resorts to phsical violence i try to avoid and NO she doesnt want the kids around me i think she just wants him around her.
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reader, ms cary +, writes (14 November 2010):
ms cary is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe has set up visitaion and that went downhill.the baby momma and i can not get along when it resorts to phsical violence i try to avoid and NO she doesnt want the kids around me i think she just wants him around her.
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reader, ms cary +, writes (14 November 2010):
ms cary is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe has set up visitaion and that went downhill.the baby momma and i can not get along when it resorts to phsical violence i try to avoid and NO she doesnt want the kids around me i think she just wants him around her.
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reader, ms cary +, writes (14 November 2010):
ms cary is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe has set up visitaion and that went downhill.the baby momma and i can not get along when it resorts to phsical violence i try to avoid and NO she doesnt want the kids around me i think she just wants him around her.
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reader, ms cary +, writes (14 November 2010):
ms cary is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwere happy until she comes around or start doing the baby momma thing shiuld i throw away all of what we have? Including our love child?????
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reader, largentsgirl89 +, writes (14 November 2010):
It sounds like he is trying to control how often he sees his children and perhaps she doesn't want them around you. Why can he only see them at her house? Has he gone to court to set up joint custody to where he can take the kids for the weekend to his house or two weeks out of the month or whatever? He should be able to see his children without her there. That's just controlling and ridiculous.
He needs to get a lawyer and set up some custody here. Its understandable for you to not want him to be with her at her house, why can't you go with him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2010): Break up with him. The kids need their dad, and you very clearly are not ready to be in a relationship.
HOW SELF CENTERED can you be?
Please consider giving the child up for adoption, so this guys next bed mate won't have to bitch at him about seeing his kid at you house.
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