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writes:My boyfriend avoid us at chrismas. My Mother died just before. He has been very supportive with my older son who is not his. His son phoned to say it was his birthday. He arranged to pop round. We were not always available. He popped around a few times. W told him we were going to Cyprus for the weekend.He has popped aroud again. Spent time with his son but wont speak to me about trouble in our relationship. We have not been intimate since April last year. I am not seeing any one. Not sure if he is.I want to move on as I want to get married etc and have someone to wake up with on xmas morning. He makes me so unhappy. Just writing this bring tears to my eyes. Thinking of how unhappy my older childrens father made me I thought things would be different. I just want a normal healthy relationship as my three boys asre suffering and are unhappy - they want a full time dad.I look forward to your responses.thanks loads
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reader, jay12toes  +, writes (7 February 2009):
 just tell him that you need to know if hes going to be there for you and your familiy, and that if he cant be there then your going to move on.
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