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My aunt and I love each other but I'm dating her daughter and don't know what to do.

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Question - (13 November 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 21 January 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My aunt 38 comes round our house a lot, she is single and had a daughter thats 12. About 1 year ago I started to notice her differently and she took attention to this and would bend down in front of me to pick something up giving me a clear view of her breast and walk in on me when I was in the bath. I tried to fight these feelings for over 1 year and they have gotten stonger. My aunt and I have admitted to each other we are in love and have kissed and that but not gone any further. Also I have been dating her daughter for 10 months in secret and no one knows. I don't know what to do please help me Jack

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2008):

Boning your auunt? I think not. Not too cool. When 17, a FRIEND of my aunt introduced me to what men and women do in the privacy of the bedroom. While that may seem way out to some, we both enjoyed it. She was much older, but so what. We weren't blood relatives. We both entered into it willingly and yes, I feel I was old enough to make that decision with no regrets and never have regretted it. I came out with quite an education far beyond most guys my age at the time. Those are precious memories of first time sex and no one can take those away from me. BUT, I would never touch a female family member. That is wayyyy over the line.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2007):

well you are dating her daughter! break that off #1. second are you sure it is not lust? i have had something similar to that when i was young, and later it was burned into ashes. the best thing to do right now is, let go of her daughter, and limit yourself with your aunt. maybe 100% feelings can't be vanished, but try limiting yourself. and do not make this public, keep it in private. you never know, maybe this is a year, or two thing. just keep it private. you don't have to completely stop contact with her, but make sure nothing goes so overboard that it is displayed in public and ruins your aunts reputation and also yours.

-- also she has a daughter that you've been seeing, so make sure you don't make this relationship with your aunt overboard, b/c if you do, then your aunts relationship with her daughter will suffer, and that is not good.

good luck !

Anila~*

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2007):

Let me get this straight... you actually feel comfortable making out with a woman who is not only old enough to be your mother, BUT was probably also changing your diapers and kissing your boo boos and most likely was there when you were coming out of your mum's twat.

Seriously grow the fuck up and bone some other chick her age if thats your thing. I mean its illegal on like so many levels.

Incest for one. Underage for two. And just plain gross for a third.

How can you say you don't know what to do? At your age you should already know this is just gonna lead to tears.

Go and find a girl who actually has breasts that don't sag yet and get fucking like every other normal teenager.

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