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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2007): Leav the kid alone. Let him experience and if he has sex with one of the kids let him enjoy. After a while he'll realize that it ain't right and will eventually stop. By the ways this is experience talk. Just tell him not to fuck the little boys too hard cause it hurts them and they won't let him do it again.
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reader, YummyMummy  +, writes (27 June 2007):
 Your son needs to know looking at little boys isn't right. At 16 and being gay he is probably very confused inside his head and doesn't realise that this is wrong. Chat to him about it and explain that he would be better looking at lads his own age
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2007): I'm unsure if the last answer states that this is bad and has to be stopped refers to the boy being gay or looking at smaller boys......From the parents point of view "small boys" might be boys aged 16 and over which in the uk is legal if he is attracted to them and they are his age...But yes if it is smaller kids then this is wrong and he should be guided away from this. It always amazes me when folk start throwing councillors at kids....??? I would asume that the comment actually refers to boys of his age which the parent still sees as children
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reader, rachyg +, writes (12 September 2006):
 well im confused how u no that he looks at little boys because if he has told u this must mean he dosent see it as being a big issue when it clearly is or maybe he told u in confidence and wants help wot eva it was or if u found out your self he really needs help before it gets really serious!!!! just tell him you understand he i gay but this is really bad anbd he can get in serious trouble for this and it could lead to problems
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reader, ask paige +, writes (12 September 2006):
 well i think at the end of the day if he has decided what sex he is atrracted to there really isnt anything u could do about it but as his mother i think you should be able to talk to him and be able to say what you truley feel about the situation and be honest about it or else if you let it just lie there bettween you you could one day explode and say really how u feel through an argument and u could loose your son so i wud say what u feel about this before it is to late to say anythin lots of love paige xx
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reader, Helen1986 +, writes (12 September 2006):
 Well if he is gay there is nothing you can do to stop him as his sexual preference is his own choice. But if he is looking at little boys he has some serious issues that you need to help him with. He needs to know that it is wrong, I think you should take him to councilor so he can talk
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