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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi guys,i need some advice.My mum and my boyfriend get on really well...i know its a good thing but at the same time it irritates the hell out of me! They jokingly gang up on me,taking the p*ss of things that know bother me.What makes it worse is if me and mum have a fall out (she is a contorl freak) them my BF takes her side.Its not a case of him trying to impress her as i normally moan about her behind her back to him.My mum always says to me and infront of my BF that he is to good for me. she has always had issues with me not being independant enough-probably because as a child she put the fear of God in to me and my brother and we both suffer with anxiety issues (something she thinks is in our heads which she had nothing to do with)!She forever compares me to other peoples kids...so and so passed her driving...so and so went abroad alone..etc....What she forgets is that i ahve always helped her out finacially,i have never done drugs,had a 1 night stand,or done drugs etc...I know this sounds harsh but sometimes i hate the both of them and i get these awful urges to dump my BF and move out of home and end all contact with my mum.
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (14 April 2009):
 Hun! Your Mum is the one with the problem, she sounds jelous of her own daughter.
If you want her to stop then stop rising top the bait, its as simple as that. And tell you B/F not to get involved in arguments between you and your Mum or you will have to think twice about inviting him round.
Basically ignoring them will show them you dont care and they will soon get bored.
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