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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I keep getting mixed signals from my ex-boyfriend. There are some days in a row where we are acting like we did when we were dating and then one day he will give me the cold shoulder. We have talked about getting back together. He said that he wants to, but he is unsure if we should because after school ends next spring, there is a good chance we will have to be long-distance and he isn't sure if he could handle that. We have been messaging each other lately and today I noticed that he messaged back other people, but not me... Does he really like me and care about me again?
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reader, Sim1983  +, writes (22 September 2010):
Sorry darling that is what i am facing and that is after 6 hard years of labour and with two step kids be thankful it could be worse
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reader, mason361  +, writes (22 September 2010):
 Alright, what I see here is what i've done in the past. He is scared to get back together due to whatever reason you two split up. It may have been mutual, but deep down it hurt him bad. He does want to get back together, but is scared that he will end up hurt again.
Maybe there are somedays where he doesnt want to talk to you, and thats okay. Everyone needs space my dear. Ask him if he still thinks about you. If he answers yes, then he wants you back, if he says no, then he doesnt. And if he says, something vague like, I dont know? No, run and find someone else.
Hope this helps
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