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female
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41-50,
*nsuspecting
writes:he lost his wife to ovarian cancer 4 months ago and has 2 kids,8 year old and 11 months.i have been his mistress for 2years.i have a son from a previous relationship but he lives with his dad.Problem:he wants me next to him always and wants us to get married nw and have a child immedeately .What must i do?how do i tell him that i dont want to be pregnant again?
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reader, Unsuspecting +, writes (22 March 2011):
Unsuspecting is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyah,guys many thanks!I was somehow feeling it that he is not genuine.Yes I am on the pill and I have supplies for 8 months,will add some more!this site is helpful..hey!
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reader, Abella  +, writes (20 March 2011):
 how do you know he will not feel the need to get a mistress once your are pregnant AND his wife? If he is offering marriage and you want to be married to him then accept marriage, but stay on the contraceptive pill until you are ready for a child - he can keep trying for a baby and you will know why it is not happening. I think, also, like the other posters, that he
wants a resident baby carer.
If he was just offering marriage and after he'd had time to grieve for his wife, then I would be more impressed.
And like the other posters I question why he thinks the prospect of another Pregnancy is a 'selling point' in his view, attached to his marriage proposal. Don't run out of your contraceptive pill!
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reader, GeeGee255 +, writes (20 March 2011):
 He wants someone to step in and play instant wife and mother to his children. And he thinks that you will stay with him if he traps you with another child. This man needs time to grieve his wife and so does his older child. He is either not thinking clearly, or is selfishly only thinking about himself.
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reader, Libra1963  +, writes (20 March 2011):
 Just as you told us - tell him. Explain why you don't want another child. Communication is good.
You would think he would be mourning the lost of his wife, not thinking of impregnating another women so soon. what kind of man is he?
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