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Met two people in a bar, now the guy wants to meet up again. Should I meet him alone or with his friend?

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Question - (29 November 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 29 November 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I met a guy and his female friend in a bar on Sunday and I have their phone numbers. The guy said he wants to meet up with me again, but I'm not sure whether to meet him on his own, or meet him and his female friend together. He fancies me, so I'm not sure if he would want his female friend there when we meet up.

I'm also not sure if I want to date him yet though, as I have only recently broken up with someone. And since I have only just met this guy, I don't know if I feel attracted to him yet. What should i do?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2011):

No they arent a couple.they were out with two other friends,another man and woman ,at first but they went home earlier than them.i thought they were two sets of couples at first though.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2011):

Okay so you only met this guy recently, if you're unsure about dating then you're really not ready to date. So just wait until you're both on a night out and tell him and his friends to join you and yours in the same bar or something.

I wouldn't meet him one on one, that is a date and you know he likes you, so it may be awkward all round. So just text him next time you're heading out with your friends and see if he and that girl want to join you.

Or you could add them on facebook or something and get to know then online.

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A female reader, synchrohobbit United States +, writes (29 November 2011):

synchrohobbit agony auntIt seems a little odd that you ended up with both their numbers. They aren't a couple looking for a third, are they? I would call him for a casual hangout and his intentions (and your feelings on the situation) will become apparent rather quickly.

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