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Messages on phone about oral sex with a man..he swears he doesn't know what they are about

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Question - (7 September 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 7 September 2009)
A female Ireland age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Im so confused - last night i wasn't able to sleep so i played the games on my boyfriend's (of 5 years)phone. It's a new touch screen thing that im not used to and i went into sent messages by mistake. Trying to scroll for the exit button i saw a number i didn't recognise and to my shame i read it.

There were 3 messages to a user name (clearly taken from the internet) asking to try oral sex with another man. My heart sank and i confronted my boyfriend about it, asking whether it was curiosity or what was the story? He read the messages and looked confused, he swears he didn't write / recieve any such messages and after 5 years i want to believe him but those messages were very specific to detail with all but name :(

Any help would be greatly appreciated!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2009):

I don't think he is telling the truth and you caught him out. He looked confused because he probably thought he had deleted them. If they were in his sent messages folder it was not incoming 'spam' as such so there is no excuse.

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