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Marrying an older guy soon..but he treats me like a child! What should I do?

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Question - (3 October 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 3 October 2010)
A female United States age 41-50, *andee writes:

I'm getting married in seven months...but I'm just not happy in the relationship..I'm marrying an older guy, who is more established than I. Which would normally be a good thing but the closer we get to our date the more he makes me feel like I'm his child ..always correcting me and if something is wrong its my fault..his family accepts me to some degree but they make comments about my age...he doesn't stand up for me the way he should...his mother said we don't seem like we are in love ...and if I don't draw him to me I will loose him...what should I do?

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A female reader, starstruck.x.x.x United Kingdom +, writes (3 October 2010):

Do you love him? honestly? take some time to think about it; if you dont then what are you doing marrying him and having to spend the rest of your life with him?

if your not happy now, think about how you might feel a few months down the line after you've married

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A female reader, blindbetty United States +, writes (3 October 2010):

blindbetty agony auntSeriously...seek some premarital counseling before securing this scenario with wedding vows to God...unless divorce seems easy to you.

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