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Married with Children but in love with a friend...is it worth my marriage to be with him?

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Question - (5 December 2005) 4 Answers - (Newest, 18 December 2005)
A female , anonymous writes:

im married with two children but im in love with a friend of mine, im sure he would be with me too if i wasnt married and had my life sorted. i just dont no what to do i want to be with him so much. but is it worth losing my marrage?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2005):

I have been married 21 years and I know what you are going through. I have been in love with this other man for years and always told myself i am married and it was wrong to feel this way, but i can't help the way i feel. I have raised 3 kids and only have one at home and i am still asking myself at times should i leave my husban and go with this one i have loved most of my life.And he has told me that he loves me and wants to be with me, and your going to think i am crazy but i prayed about this and kept waiting for an answer and even though i still love this man with all my heart i have realized the grass isn't always greener on the other side. I will always love this man but only in by dreams i have a very good husban he loves me and i do love him even though it isn't the same love i have for this other man, but i made my choice and i know i made it then for a reason. And remember things you shouldn't have always seems better than what you do have don't make a mistake that can ruin the rest of you life and others.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2005):

I understand. Marriage is very hard. I have fallen out of love with my husband and I just don't know what to do. I don't think you should leave your husband for this one person...it should be thought out. If you are really unhappy, which you must be to go this far, maybe you should consider separating first. I know its hard...I am in a similar situation. Good luck

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2005):

Has your spouse been a good father, husband and provider for his family

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A female reader, ALEY KAT +, writes (6 December 2005):

PERSONALLY, I THINK THAT WHEN YOU GET MARRIED AND MAKE THAT COMMITMENT, THAN YOU SHOULD KEEP THAT COMMITMENT!!! ITS OKAY TO LOVE ANOTHER PERSON, BUT DONT DO SOMETHING DUMB!! THIS IS SIMPLE ADVICE, BUT I HOPE THAT IT HELPS!!!

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