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writes:i am dying inside.i am married to an egocentric narcissist .i have endured him because i have young children,and because i have no one to turn to.during the 22 years of marriage he put me so much down that i am not able to stand up anymore and face the world .i feel completly isolated. i feel crushed.the emotional abuse the disrespect the silent treatment the indiference will never stop i am convinced.the 22 year story is too long and my heart is broken.i have come to realize that this man has no compassion whatsoever .can someone enlighten me please?how should i leave this man?i am living in a country where there are no places you can go to get support ,guidance ect.can somebody tell me step by step how i can do this on my own? thank you
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reader, Loiselle  +, writes (9 July 2011):
 Have you worked outside the home at all? Do you have skills to start making your own living? If not, can you get some?
You will be surprised at how much happier you may be on your own, even if you have to get by with less money.
Don't spend your remaining years so unhappy.
Let us know how it is going.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for your kind support,but unfortunatly i have no family.and the shelters in my country (from what i understood there is only one)...............is out of the question.
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reader, krunkqueen  +, writes (3 July 2010):
i am truly sorry to hear that. no one in this world deserves to be treated so poorly.. especially when you are the mother of his children! there is always someone out there to help you check online for local womens abuse shelters i am sure there are many women going thru the same thing.. your not alone.. please dont stay with him for your childrens sake because in reality you will just hurt them more and they will grow up thinking the way he treats you is ok when it is not but they wont know that because they see dad do it.... i grew up in a home where my dad beat my mom daily .. and honestly it affected me alot...in good and bad ways so please dont put your kids thru this... it will be ok you will find a way leave this man he is wasting your time there are plenty of men out there.. you will be fine:)
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