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male
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41-50,
*ompartmentalizing
writes:I have been married for 13+ years and like many our relationship started off with us having sex multiple times a day 7 days a week for about 2 years. However after a while sex has dwindled down to once a week, twice at most. She is treated like a queen and has been spoiled our entire marriage, to the point I do all the laundry, house cleaning, yard work, you name it and I do it. My only request is for her time and sex more frequently. We have talked about it many times, and nothing ever gets accomplished.Here's my thoughts, she is completely beautiful, 6'1", 150lbs, blonde hair with green eyes, and I honestly think that she has become so use to the things I do that she takes it for granted. She is so involved with so many different community events that it often times leads to her neglecting her family. I am at a loss, I don't know what to do? Reply to this Question
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reader, C. Grant  +, writes (2 August 2010):
 Yes, you are being taken for granted. Very much so. If you've discussed the problem and she doesn't seem to be tuning in then back off on what you're doing around the house. You have to get her attention.
Keep in mind though that this is typical of long term relationships. You have to keep things interesting, which is difficult after 13 years. Ask yourself if you've doing what you can to avoid sex becomming just the same old boring thing.
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