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writes:im eighteen years old and married i love this guy but i dont wanna be with him anymore. when he does something wrong i tell him its really over but he always has someway to make me stay and i do even thought im really unhappy, im torn between the two what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, mami18 +, writes (13 January 2011):
mami18 is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks everyone for ginving me some answer i fell in love with him cuz when i first met him i knew he was the one but this yr he just put me thru hell and back now we have a daughter togerther im torn part of me doesnt want to be with him but then part of me does and sometimes we have really good days we really dont fight that much anymore the only time we really fight is when i dont want him to hang out with this one friend he has cuz he's bad news and the only other thing is he neve wakes up with the baby in the middle in the night and i dont think its fair but think some of u are right maybe we need a brake to think about wat we both want and see how things go befor we make a mistake we dont want to make and im still in love with him and when he does something worng something oinside of me tells me he will change and i let him get to me everytime and say sorry and how much he love me. but thank u all for your help
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reader, Pretty21 +, writes (11 January 2011):
Honestly I think ur very young ...y should sit down and talk to him if what y feel inside and how ur unhappy...i think u guys need some time...some people don't believe in that but honestly the same thing happened with me ive been with my husband since I was 14 we decided to move in when we both turned 18...but didn't work out 3 months later went or ways we kept in touch decided to date again since we loved each other now we got back to living together when I was 19 still too young but don't regret it im happily married and im turning 22yrs this year so we've ben livibg together for 2 ys now and hopefully many more to come good luckkkk
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2011): i think you really need to think about it before you make your decision. is there some1 else you want to be with? or any reason. If you are extremely unhappy, you should leave him and stand your ground. dont let him make it up to you all the time. your still young so you have plenty of time to go out and enjoy life before you settle down.
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reader, ToHereKnowsWhen  +, writes (11 January 2011):
 If you really don't want to be with him anymore, then you must be honest and end this relationship now. If you don't then you will only end up tormenting yourself and your husband. But ask yourself, or remind yourself, why do you love him?
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