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anonymous
writes:i have been married for 10 years and have not been able to have regular sex like a normal person. we have not been able to penetrate. how can i get rid of the fear of pain? Reply to this Question |
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reader, AskEve  + ♥, writes (6 May 2009):
 You are not alone, lots of women tend to clamp up at the thought of something being inserted into their vagina and this includes tampons. Can you give me a little bit more information about WHY you feel this way? Did something happen to you when you were younger to bring on this fear?
~Eve~
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2009): You need medical and/or pschological help, as soon as posible. You;ve too long aleady. Please don't be embarrassed. Sex is a beautiful thing, and a special part of what makes a strong marriage bond. Don't deny you and husband of this pleasure and experience. Make an appointment today: Even if you just leave a message becuase an office is closed -- get the ball rolling (no pun intended) - make an appointment. Now. Abd hyg your husband, who must be enormously patient.
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female
reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (6 May 2009):
 Sounds like you have an industrial strength hymen, your doctor can take care of this for you, it is not a common problem but I actually know someone who had to have hers removed by this minor surgery so it can't be all that rare.
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female
reader, satindesire +, writes (6 May 2009):
 Unfortunately, I think this is the kind of situation that we cannot help you with. While I don't doubt the ability of the aunts and uncles here on this site, your situation is dire and requires professional help either by a doctor or a licensed therapist.
I apologize for not being able to help you, but none of us here are truly qualified to help you with such an important situation as you're in now.
Please go and seek counseling as soon as possible.
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