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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Okay,I'm dating this guy. I'm 15, hes 16.Things are not the same anymore as I haven't seen him as much. He said things have now flopped/failed between us.Before I told him I liked him he used to do all these cute things to get my attention and maybe get me to like him.At school, every day he said 'You look really pretty' or 'You look really nice today' or 'Your eyes look nice', something like that each day.He would play with my hair in class, but when I turned around he would drop it and pretend it wasn't him, if you understand?He would always grab my wrist and stop me from writing. Everyone asked me if I liked him and he liked me but I denied it because at the time I didnt, after a few months I started devoloping feelings for him.I told him in May and he told me he likes me too. Ive NEVER been in a relationship or dated, I've done nothing with a guy. However, he has gone as far as sex. We started to date, we were not ready to be in a relationship straight away.I had an accident, didn't see him in 6 weeks, lost contact via MSN and phone. Won't be seeing him until school starts in September, because he's going on a holiday in a few days.He said things have now flopped, but does he still like me? If he did all those things before his feelings can't go straight away right? Or can they?A Males view would be much appreciated.Thank you x
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reader, Manximus  +, writes (22 July 2008):
 Hun, I think this is a question you should really be asking him. I am not sure how things can flop. If he really liked you in the way he did, then he would have seen you during your recovery. If I was with a girl and the same thing happened, I would be there with her while she needed me. There is no way I could have waited for 6 weeks. Did he know about the accident or did the communication just stop for 6 weeks?If the communication just stopped, then he may have possibly thought you were no longer interested and found someone else. (some guys that age can do this quite easily)To be honest hun, either way I do not think he is the right guy for you. I see 2 possibilities here.1. He did not hear from you, so thought you were no longer interested and found someone else he likes.2. He knew of the accident and chose not to be there for you and support you.Since you have spoke, he has told you that things have flopped. I presume he means the possibility of a relationship is something he does not want.I think that this guy is a player and a relationship is probably the last thing he is interested in. You deserve much more than him. My advice to you is to ignore him, enjoy being yourself and spending time with your friends. If you see him around, keep smiling and he will realise that you are happier without him. You will meet someone decent and respectful of you in time, but try to forget this guy. He isn't worth it.Best of luckMx
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