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30-35,
*inkgreenbluenunchuks
writes:Well it all started around Christmas time.. I haven't seen my guy friend for long (2 months-ish). He had a falling out with another guy friend from our group. 1st time I saw him after that was my friends 18th birthday. We had to do a rose-candle dance and I got him as my partner. I definately felt something for him again. (I'm saying again because we tried to start a relationship before but I just wasn't ready) and the guys bestfriend told me the next day that that guy still had feelings for me too. So the guy started talking to me saying that he wants things to work out this time. So a relationship was in progress. But at that same night I had to go away for a months holiday back to my homecountry. On the evening before my flight, guy B (a guy I liked for a year) said that he had feelings for me and that he wants to go out with me when I come back. I told him about guy A So 1 month later. Im back and guy A invites to watch a movie on valentines day but its a group thing though. And it turns out Guy B is going too. So Vday was a blunder. I avoided both of them but before I go home Guy A gives me a red rose. *smiles*Next day Guy A wants to ask if I still liked Guy B. And I said "Yes".. So Guy A says "I think you should pick guy B because you liked himfor ages and you might regret not choosing him." But I told Guy A that I wanted to be with him not Guy B.. So I dont really know how that ended if he believed me that I liked him more and wanted to be with him.1 week later, the guy has a girlfriend. And she is one of my close friends and knew that there was something between me and Guy A.. Funny thing is. All my friends asked this guy if there was someone else. He told them he still wanted to be with me but thought he was in the way of Guy B and me.. To add to it. Guy A's gf will be moving to Canada in a month. So I dont see what was the point of him getting with her. Because I know he is not the long distance type. And she even said that a breakup is unavoidable that she will break up with him. Bottom line. I want Guy A but I dont know what to do to convince him because we only started talking again. (I was avoiding him). And plus Guy B is sooo sweet but I know i love Guy A more..
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2009): Do you think you want guy A just because he has a girlfriend? Maybe you need to give yourself a break from all the guys and just find someone new. If it was meant to be it will happen if not don't try to complicate things if they don't need to be.
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