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writes:caring about him more than yourselfsacrificing yourself for his happinessfeeling his pain more than himselfbeing attached to him so badly that you cant be without him[messaging every second, not letting him go out of station]sharing all your good and bad times with himexpecting him to understand you the mostexpecting him to take care of me as if im a princessexpecting him to be with me 4evawhat is this??? is this love or friendship?? or infatuation? lust?? m totaly confused!! Reply to this Question
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (15 January 2010):
 Sounds more like obsession - and that is scary.The poor guy has no where to go but fall coz no one can live up to so many expectations. What if he wants a productive self assured woman who looks after herself, instead of one that neglects her own being for him? What if he finds strong independant women more attractive? What if he wants time independant of another or to go out of phone range for some reason? What if he just isn't in as much pain as you want to think he is and does not want a situation dwelled upon? What if he just does not have the reasoning ability through no fault of his own to understand you more than anyone else? What if you don't actually act in a way that inspires him to treat you like a princess? What if forever is just too long for him? What then, ... do you get a couple of bunny's to boil?Your not interested in him, your interested in an unrealistic set of ideals and want him to be 'that' person instead of who he actually is.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (15 January 2010):
It's crazy obsession.
If you two are in a relationship then it could develop into love, but you both need to chill the heck out.
You are being so demanding and high maintenance that the poor guy is going to meet a nice relaxed girl and run to her instead.
Get a social life and try and be a bit more normal if you want this to last.
Good Luck!! xx
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