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male
age
30-35,
*rico
writes:there is a girl i ask for a date when i got newly into university just two weeks earlier in the university but she refused politely. You know am a kind of person who doesn't insist on a girl. After i ask you for the first time if u refuse i go my way.asking this girl out was my first time of asking a girl out she refused and i went my way. Anytime we see we do greet each other very well as good friends will do.sometimes i even do pay her fairs and she does appreciate very well . Days went by and we didn't see each for sometime she started asking of me on facebooksince am far away from her right now asking me were i am when am i coming and some other curious questions and insisting to know.what i want to know is does she loves me and want to play hard to get or just being friendly. Dear friends i will need your sincere and kind answers thank you.
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reader, nat1972  +, writes (17 September 2012):
 Hi erico,
Sometimes it is better to become friends first, than just jump into a relationship. The attraction has to be on both sides. I think at this point she is a friend. So be a friend to her and spend some time getting to no each other. She obviously cares about you in a friendship way. Maybe love is pushing it too much. Communicate with her and ask her how she feels about you. Then you will know exactly how she feels about you.
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