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writes:Help! I have been having sex for about two months now and I still can't orgasm! A few times I was getting close but he can't keep going or after a while the feeling just goes away! I was wondering if anyone has had a similiar situation and what I can to do to make me orgasm or at least hold on to the feeling. I am starting to just give up on sex all together..it's so frustrating
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2006): You have to experiment different positions. Eg: missionary and doggy with my recent ex cannot get her off no matter what. She told me that it felt so good she can faint, but even if I banged her for 2 and a half hours in different positions or what-not, she still couldn't orgasm those ways. HOWEVER, once she gets on top of me, she can get multiple orgasms no problem. I think it's because my penis 'touches' every part of her insides, where as missionary and doggy doesn't.
You just have to experiment positions, kinks, and possibly even with the help of toys or tingly-sensation lube. You might even request the guy talk dirty to you - like call u a slut or a bitch, and how he wants to do stuff to you, etc.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2006): Erm, well, slightly embarassing, but you know, I'm sure 99% of people do it.....
Close the curtains, lock the doors, relax. Make sure no one's gonna knock at the door...... and then touch yourself. Find out where you like to be touched and how. And then replicate that when having sex. It's no big deal to stimulate yourself while having penetative sex - or asking your fella to touch you. If you don't want to do it by yourself, ask your BF to join you - have a sex session focussed on you and what you need. You can trade him for one focussing on him the next time around - and it'll be a huge deal for him if he can make you come - really!
And good lord don't give up on sex, it's not all about the big O, enjoy it, experiment within your comfort zone and be safe.
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