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writes:I fell in love with this girl in 6th grade....we're seniors in high school now. i broke her heart in 6th grade and she broke mine last year when we dated for a year.... it took a while to hit me but everytime we talk i miss her more and more, she tells me that im the only guy she can see in her future and she knows we will be together again, but if i try and get back with her she says no she needs time to forgive me.. she says she has no idea how long it till take and its up to her heart to forgive me.. it bothers me because she calls me up and and still talks to me randomly for hours and i cant not answer the phone... i also cant ignore her if she tries any other way to talk to me... not a day goes by without thinking about her and i just want to be with her now and i know ive changed since the last time we dated ( she dumped me because i was a ''jerk'') does anyone have advice of what i can do to get her back? to prove to her that i have changed.. i know i have i just need to prove it...
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reader, MissTellAll +, writes (16 June 2011):
 Honestly, if you've made it clear to her already that you want to be with her it's no longer in your hands. It's up to her. It hurts to feel unrequited love and I'm sorry for that. I advice not to just wait around for her forever. Ever heard of the saying 'Don't put all of your eggs in one basket'? It pretty much means don't put all of your faith into one thing that has such a risk of breaking. I'm not saying date someone else, unless someone really wonderful comes along, just don't sit around waiting for her all the time. That will only cause more pain for you and should she decide she doesn't want to be with you at all it will hurt even more.Next time you talk to her, don't be scared and just say you want to be with her. say you aren't pressuring her, but make your point crystal clear that you want her and won't hurt her. That's all I've got on trying to get her back.Hope this helps. Good luck.
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