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Lost my sexual confidence after having a baby

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Question - (15 August 2009) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I have recently had a baby,but during my pregnancy i lost my sex drive as i sufferd with sickness and problems the whole way through.My problem is now i have my sex drive back i am very nervous in the bedroom.I know my husband is happy with how i look but i feel like i cant satisfy him. I cant bring myself to go on top during sex as my conceince keeps telling me i wont be doing it right,i have not done it for so long but i am still up for doing everything else,even putting on a strip show and using sex toys.My husband never mentions this and we do other positions such as doggy and missionary but i really cant get over going on top,i get very tense and change the subject or pretend im not in the mood if i think he is going to ask.Did anyone lose their confidence after having a baby and how can i get it back so i can satisfy my husband.thanks

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