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Lost in confusion...I'm 15 and pregnant!

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Question - (14 June 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 15 June 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Hi, I'm 15 and pregnant. I guess I should be happy that I'm caring a new life, but my parents they are really honest with me, but I cant be with them. Not with this. My parents I know wont kick me out, but they will get upset with me... Same with my friends and family... Like on my dads side my cousin got pregnant at the same age. She happy now with her baby and is back in school straight A student, but can that be me? I'm scared out of my mind to tell my parents because I hate seeing there sad and upset faces on. My sister are from 1 to 3 year younger and what will they think of me? I'm there role model. At school I am known as the cute little harmless girl. Now I'm going to be known as "The Prego Girl Who Got Knocked Up." Also with my teacher and friends do they help or should do this on my own? Will my parents? Should I get an abortion? Or should I keep it? Should put the baby up for adoption? These question are in my mind. I need help from someone that is going through what I am...

P.S my boyfriend cheated on me with my BEST friend... :(

Is my life over???

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A female reader, KaytiieBabyy Australia +, writes (15 June 2010):

Thats Great. Keep posted ! x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2010):

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Thanks all your answers helped It thought of a way to tell them. Now they are not so happy, but told them that I was ok. After about a hour of talking they finally realized it was my decision and I had done this. Now they are so supportive. Thanks.... Its a girl I'm naming it Abigal!!! So happy!!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2010):

Does the babys father know that you are pregnant if not then you should tell him as you need to discuss it with him. Your parents maybe a little upset at the time but they will come to terms with it. You should sit ur mum down and discuss your options but please do remember it is your decission no one elses. As for the people at school just let it go in through one ear out through the other people like that is not worth your time. I hope that this helps

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2010):

I think you need to think about your options, your baby won't have a dad and your going to miss out on your gcses or exams or whatever. Your life isn't over and you will be able to handle it with help from your family, you need to tell them because you can't hide a baby or a bump!!

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A female reader, KaytiieBabyy Australia +, writes (14 June 2010):

Haaaaay Darling;

i'm 15, and i dont know if im pregnant or not. im worried about it. But i feel whats done is done. Know one can tell you what to do with this child, It's ur child if you feel abortion or adoption if whats right for it then choose it. My belifes are strongly against it. So its not my choice.

Look telling your parents will be hard but you cant hide it. and everyday tell your younger sisters its not the right choice, and they should stay away from it,

your lifes not over. Just your starting a new one.

Look positive, im here to talk so inbox me if you need xx

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