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writes:Dear agony aunts i'm a male living with no hope in my life any more, i feel like i will never be normal again. i feeling sick with chest pains,always constapated,skin colour darkened by the unknown sickness i have, low sex drive and have lost toomuch weight.at first i thought i had hiv then did my hiv tests at 3, 6 and 9 months and all my results came back negative. Every thing around me doesnt feel normal,I have no intrest in anythng anymore, i feel like my emotions dnt exist no more and every body treats me weird. i feel alone with no one to talk to as both my parents had past away. I now have started doing drugs as a result of trying to get rid of the problms and stress i have, i dont care about anythng no more, my girl friend loves me and tries by all means to keep me happy but i always feel like happines is not meant for me,i dont understand my self, I am so useless in life and i really need help
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2010): Hi
I agree i think you have a bad depression going on and could do with some extra help, go to your doctor and see what they advice.
You will feel weird and ditached from everyting this is normal with depression, and will feel like you are in blackness with no hope and ill. You will come out of this dark place my freind because you have the light within you. You re a unique individual with lots of love to give in the future to others, but for now you must have that love for you and know that you are NOT useless in life, you ARE life and it has yet to begin for you. Please do not be scared or lose hope and understand that you will get better when you go for help, you may need to talk about your loss. But above all DRUGS are a NO NO and as you have been told will only make you feel far worse.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2010): I think you are deeling with serious depression that needs immediate treatment. Depression will eventually lead to physical illnesses, such as the ones you describe. See a psychiatrist!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2010): Wow, you almost bought me to tears. What do you do with yourself? Work, school, painting, writing? Maybe you should try to do something you like. Your girfriend loves you for a reason. And you being able to get someone to put their feelings to the side to make sure you're happy makes me feel like you're worth being around. Put more of that negative energy into showing your girlfriend she's appreciated. Women need attention, so you've got an unselfish lady. So try to make the best of things. In the meantime, more than one opinion is always the best. Good luck!
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (25 August 2010):
 I'm not a professional so I can't be sure but it sounds like all of this is depression. It doesn't only affect your mind, it strongly affects your body in the ways you just described. See what your doctor thinks thought because I might be wrong.
Have you done anything that makes you feel like you don't deserve happiness? Your girlfriend LOVES you for a reason. You want to feel like you deserve it? Make sure she's happy, make sure she's being loved by YOU! Then whenever she smiles, you'll know that you are doing your part as her boyfriend and you DESERVE the love she's giving you.
I hope that helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2010): Did you get tested for hepatitis yet?
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reader, Pazush  +, writes (24 August 2010):
 Hi,
what youre telling here describes a situation that needs a treatment.
dont choose your drugs please, it might make your situation worse.
those are common feelings. you should get yourself exemined by a professional, you will find your answear patiently. it is good you dont have hiv, now, go meet a doctor about those feelings. it is not less important than a skin color issue and just like that, it might being caused by a physical factor. it might be even related to the other thing.
insted of losing faith, start your research.
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