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writes:I have been sending messages to a man on a dating site ,almost everyday for the past 8 months .We get on well ,last week when i didn't reply to his message ,he sent me a message saying why didn't i reply and if i didn't want to carry on writing just let him know .The other day he wrote me another message ,saying do i want to send him messages on the dating website or his email address ,and said i'm a nice person and he will understand if i didn't want to write bck to him or if i found someone else who want more than friendship .I don't understand his behaviour ,he said he was very reserved ,but he has gone weird ,does he like me more than friends ? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2011): I wrote to someone on a dating site for 9 months and then he didn't want to meet up!
If its a dating site its for dating, however reserved he says he is, so ask him whether he went on there to meet someone or just wants to be in contact by email. From what I can gather there are quite a lot who only want to email.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (11 May 2011):
 8 months is a long time to commit to just writing without expecting anything. I would say he will like you more than friends if you show him first that you want him as more than friends. You are both playing the waiting game with nothing to lose. Ask for pictures then see if you like his voice on the phone. That will give you more clues as to whether you want more from this guy. Platonically I think you have a lot here.
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