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*haniered
writes:i am in a relationship for over 2 years now and i had to move to the states to live. Therefore, i am currently in long distance relationship...its so hard and everything because i was so sprung about my boyfriend when we started dating then after the years pass now i am feel like i don't love him no more and i don't want us to break up i am will to push through but i am scared that peer pressure my take me over. He knows how i truely feel and its killing him slowly each and everyday and he still want us to work through it. i wish i felt the way i felt when we first met i missing feeling like that towards him and its unfair for him to be waiting patiently for me and i am unsure of my feel...i really care about him 100% but i am not sure if my love is a hundred anymore. it feels boring at time and i just started feeling this way since i have moved i truely don't want us to break apart but why don't my stupid feelings remain the same i wanna kno why do i feel like this and if i don't love him y i don't want us to part?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2010): That's the thing with long distance. You drift apart when you don't see each other and you miss each other so much. Unfortunately I'm in a similar situation now, haven't seen my guy for a month!!! And won't see him for another one because someone in his family is Ill
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reader, drog +, writes (17 November 2010):
 Some people just aren't cut out for a long distance relationship. That's no attack on you or anyone, you just value physically seeing him much more than the constraints of a LDR. Perhaps you are one of these people and need to tell your boyfriend now before you hurt each other.
It's understandable that you don't want to break up because you fear hurting him. I'm sure you care about him, but that doesn't mean you should continue to stay in a relationship where both of you are unhappy.
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