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Boyfriend sneaking around talking to gay guys when I was pregnant. Is he gay?

Q.   So my relationship is very complicated! I dated this guy for a year and a half and we even had a baby together. The problem is, while I was pregnant and even before he lied a lot. Although he claims he didn't cheat on me I still found messages he ...

A.   28 November 2010: It doesn't seem like his sexual orientation is the problem. He is clearly very promiscuous and not fit for the committed relationship that you perhaps are seeking. The confusion you are feeling about his sexual orientation may just be denial against ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend wants my baby to remember me by

Q.   ok im going out with this girl in new york but im moving to florida and were in love and she wants to have a baby that she can keep so it like a piece of me i cant even tell my parents anything how would i tell them how would i tell her mom i dont ...

A.   28 November 2010: It doesn't seem like this girl understands the difference between a memento and a full live baby. I don't suggest that you get her pregnant and then leave the state unless you are planning to come back and live out your duty as that child's ... (read in full...)

Fiancé wishes my penis was bigger, do you think I'm big enough?

Q.   I need help. Me and my fiancé been together for over a year and I have to admit...we are both sexually active. She says she loves my penis size but constantly reminds me that she wish I was bigger. My penis is 6" long with 3.5" girth but she says ...

A.   18 November 2010: Your penis size is not the problem here, it's your fiancee. Her comments about your penis, though honest, have no place in a realm of love and are adequate to those of men that make their wives get breast implants. Sure, wishes are wishes and she ... (read in full...)

How come she doesn't make me feel special anymore?

Q.   I need some serious advice. I'm down in the dumps by my own doing and feel like I can't seem to get going anymore. I treating my ex gf like crap and was such a selfish asshole that I think I have lost her for good. I regret my ignorance. I broke up ...

A.   17 November 2010: You've definitely need to get your thoughts cleared up. There is a lot going on here, so I can see why you're so confused. However, since I cannot wait for hours of meditation, I'll say this: Just because you're ready to make up for what you've ... (read in full...)

How am I going to kiss him without him freaking out?

Q.   so , my boyfriend , whenever we hugg he like doesn't put his arm around my waist . he just leans into my arm . butt he hates when I try to hugg him , so how am I gonna kiss him without him freaking out ? any tips ? I appreciate you trying .(: L...

A.   17 November 2010: Well, first, is the issue that he simply has a certain way of hugging or that he is not prone to public displays of affection? Is this behavior all the time or only when you're in private/public places?... (read in full...)

Long distance is killing me!

Q.   i am in a relationship for over 2 years now and i had to move to the states to live. Therefore, i am currently in long distance relationship...its so hard and everything because i was so sprung about my boyfriend when we started dating then after ...

A.   17 November 2010: Some people just aren't cut out for a long distance relationship. That's no attack on you or anyone, you just value physically seeing him much more than the constraints of a LDR. Perhaps you are one of these people and need to tell your boyfriend ... (read in full...)

I've tried dumping him twice but he doesn't get the memo!

Q.   hi i need to break up with my boyfriend, because he is controling and overbearing. the proplem is i dont know how i tried too twice already and it went knowhere we got back together. so how should i put it to him, he always would just get mad and ...

A.   16 November 2010: The problem is that he is using your argument and making it work for himself, keeping you guys in the relationship. He is using your reasons to change the argument around. The truth is, you don't have to justify yourself to him. You don't have to ... (read in full...)

Falling in love with my sister

Q.   My sister and I seem to have feelings for each other. She has a boyfriend and I also have a girlfriend. I feel like I should tell her that we can submit our feelings to each other. Can I give a try incest and what it feels like?...

A.   16 November 2010: Perhaps these are feelings you want to clarify within yourself first. Speak to a professional and clear your head and, if after everything is out of the way, you find you truly are in love with her then--I repeat, THEN--you could find out if she ... (read in full...)

Will committing incest emotionally scar my brother?

Q.   Last night my brother and I (I'm a male) got pretty drunk just hanging out. We both started watching some porn, and discussing things, and, well....we ended up partially having sex. We were both consenting adults, although once we realized what was ...

A.   16 November 2010:  As a person that has been forced to receive affection from an older sibling, I know of nothing more frightening than the reappearance of a past "incident" during an everyday activity. So yes, there's a chance that it will stick forever. Ho... (read in full...)

Male pattern baldness!

Q.   Hey people, I can't help but feel that I'll be single for the rest of my life. Here's my situation: I'm in my early twenties and started balding a couple of years back. Instead of opting for hair transplants and whatnot, I chose to shave my head an...

A.   16 November 2010: Funny. I was once in complete lust with my only bald teacher in high school. But anyway, it seems like you've only been met with bad luck. That's not an excuse to say "keep your chin up, buddy" but rather to say that you have not met every si... (read in full...)

I can't stand that she's not a virgin!

Q.   Okay so im fairly certain that i want to break up with my girlfriend. We've been together for almost 9 months now and in her eyes everything is going great. But a few months ago I found out she s not a virgin(I am a virgin). Ive tried to let time ...

A.   16 November 2010: Why does it bother you in the first place? Sure, sex is a very common thing nowadays and we like to think that only those who are pure and unsullied are virgins. But this is not the case, I'm sure. She seems very sweet and perhaps that's something ... (read in full...)

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