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writes: I am in a relationship and have been for over two years. He has a daughter and I have 5 of my own children. He has a slip disc in his back. For the last 6 months things have not been going well between us....we hardly talk or laugh or have sex. He is also very interested in being with a guy. I dont know if this is the end of our relationship or maybe he is gay. He says its just his back that keeps us from making love but it didn't stop him when we swapped partners with a couple. Do you think the flame is gone? Is it finally over? Reply to this Question
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reader, becky05 +, writes (7 July 2005):
Tell him how you feel, tell him how much you miss the closeness of your relationship. ask him if he thinks you have a problem in your relationship. Talking should sort this out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2005): I think you need to sit down with him and have an honest chat.Tell him openly your feelings and ask for his reactions.Then let him do the same to you.Only that way will you be sure of his feelings for you and what is going on in his heart and mind.It is only through talking openly and honestly like this will any relationship work.Good luck
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reader, Noheim +, writes (1 June 2005):
It’s finally over if you want it to be. But are you sure that’s what you want; that’s the hard part. With the whole guy situation, I don’t mean to be rude or anything, but sometimes guys spend more time with their friends because we nag or just argue with them over everything. Maybe he just feels overwhelmed with all the stress, just like you are. And instead of talking to you he tries to forget about it with his friends. And about the sex, maybe you guys just need to spend one calming peaceful night together without distractions. Just concentrate on each other and you don’t have to have intercourse. There are plenty of other things that you guys can do. There has to be some flame in there. You guys just have to spark it up again. It must be hard but I really hope that you guys can work things out. Best of luck
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