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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey, I'm really starting to think my boyfriend is cheating on me. We've been together for over a year but it's a long distance relationship. For a while we saw each other alot I stayed with him for 4 days every week and for over a month in the summer we spent so much time together and it was great. We havn't seen each other for a month and wont for quite awhile. And in this month things have gone really down hill. Every evening for the past week and a half he's suddenly made up an excuse for being busy. We text alot when he's not at work almost constantly and I know he likes it that way (I'd prefer a more personal form of comunication but access is difficult) yet he's said he's fallen asleep, that he ran out of battery (three times in a row) and just generally odd things and I can't contact him. It's always for 2/3 hours and pretty much the same kind of times between 5-9:00pm. He's stopped saying I love you and when I bring it up he gets angry really quickly. I know before, when I was up at his alot, we were both very much in love. Is he just disconnected because of the distance or do you think he's cheating? He doesn't really have a group of friends (nor does he want any) and he never spoke to girls but he seems to have really changed. I don't know what to do.
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reader, Ven  +, writes (20 October 2010):
A good bit of advice about how seriously you are worried about infidelity is this:
If you think the evidence seriously points to him cheating, hire a private investigator to find out for sure. If you don't think the evidence is that strong, then for now you need to trust him and wait for events to unfold.
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