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anonymous
writes:I am in a Long distance relationship for over a year , but I do most of the calling by telephone and it is costing me a fortune ! He waits on me to call . I have now decided to not call for a couple of days to see if he can be more assertive . He is travelling to see me at Christmas , but I feel he has to make more effort ....afraid of losing him though ....
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2012): If he is interested, you won't loose him because you don't call. If he is interested and you don't call.....he will call you! If you don't call and he looses interest.... better you cut your losses now.
Maybe he doesn't feel a need to talk that often?
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reader, person12345  +, writes (28 October 2012):
 People in LDRs still use phones?! Use Skype. Or Gchat. Or ICQ. Or IM. There are tons of free services you can use that also let you video chat.
You should tell him you would like if he would put in initiative more while you're apart because those kinds of hints are not easy to pick up on. Tell him and then let him contact you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2012): So instead of talking this issue out with him you decide to test him? Great strategy OP, what are you going to do next hire a really expensive and beautiful hooker to go over and shag him to see if he's cheating?
Look if it's costing you money use skype or other form of free communication. If you're unhappy with him not calling as much and paying for a share of the costs of communicating, say it to him. Don't play the passive aggressive games and start doing tests.
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