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writes:I'm 28 and have been studying with a 21 yr. old girl in law school. She started slacking a bit and I told her to shape up or I wouldn't study anymore. She said I shouldn't be so abrasive right b/f finals week. We were supposed to study together last night but she never called me back. She ignored me all day today--some weird young-girl game? Anyway, I'm pretty sure she had a thing for me at some point b/c she said something about looking for a "f@ck buddy," and tries to act all cutesy--maybe she's just a flirt. Either way, i'm not necessarily into her, but who knows what the future holds. Is she playing a game? what should I do? So far, I've acted to busy to care b/c I really am.
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reader, bluecow  +, writes (1 December 2011):
 Unless you are actually paired up as study partners (and even then you could talk to the lecturers involved), I would move on and find someone as serious about their studies as you are.I'm 31 and have returned to study too. I work closely with a small group of other adults for revision as this seems to work the best. That way if one is slacking or if someone cant make a session it doesnt matter there are enough of us (but not too many 5-6) to achieve our goals. There are plenty of other "mature" students on the course, who just see it all as an excuse to get drunk and not work. I would NOT choose these people as my study partners as their view of the whole thing is so very different from my own.Be friendly to her, but not friends. Its pointless letting her games distress you and its time to move on and find someone as serious about passing as you are.Good luck!
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (1 December 2011):
 Do you need her to finish your studies? I mean do you NEED to have her as your study partner?
If not, find someone else and let her do her "high school" "I'm too cool for school thing".
It's not up to you to help her through law school. Personally, I wouldn't waste any more time on her.
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