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writes:Can any kind girls/guys out there give me advice on where i can meet women? I've not had much luck for meeting girls now for years as i am quite shy. My friends are similar to me, so i dont really meet any through them, and i dont seem to pull on nights out like i used to. Its like a catch 22 situation as i've lost confidence in chatting them up, although surely that is exacly what i need to attract them! Anyone care to share some advice? Also girl's,of all your experience of being chatted up, what ways have guys approached you which you like the most? Keith x
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2007): I met my first guy at a jazz and folk club, i saw him, liked what i saw and approaced him. The second guy got out at the traffic lights and asked me for a date, we exchanged phone numbers. Others i have met mostly a pubs and clubs, you get talking. If you have a hobby that takes you outside. The car clubs are good, loads of singles get to them. I went to a Jeep off-road club meet with a friend and met a nice guy there. My latest and hopefully last!, we met through a dating agency which i was introduced to by a friend. I went along for the social scene. I had embedded myself in the house with my son after a painful split with his dad. I didn't want to meet anyone serious. After 7 frogs i finally met my prince and we are getting married this year on April 12th. Good luck and don't despair, there truly is a light at the end of the tunnel and no is isn't an Inter-city train.
Take care and i wish you well
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reader, Mivi +, writes (29 January 2007):
Hi, I met my first partner through friends at a party. I met my husband at work - he was my boss and I met my current partner online, chatting. When I go out clubbing with friends, I like a guy who isn't intimidated by me, and can hold a conversation. Lots of smiling and then a compliment that isnt cheesy! I find that if a guy glances and smiles, then I will go over and chat them up! Or....try shopping in a supermarket....lots of single women later in the evening. Or even nice cafes at the weekend in the afternoon.Good luck.
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reader, Tanyas247  +, writes (29 January 2007):
 What activities are you into? I would always suggest that to meet the right person, one must do the things they are interested in. A friend of mine loves nature, so joined an outdoor club where he met his current wife. Had he met her in a club, I doubt it would have been such a good first impression. Women are drawn to men who do things they love. Do what you truly enjoy, don't do anything JUST to meet women (it won't work), and always be true to yourself.
The best approach that worked on me was in a situation where we were all doing the same thing and were happy to be there. The rest will fall into place.
Best of Luck!
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reader, melschatbox +, writes (29 January 2007):
 Let's see.. I'm married now, but I can remember being "courted". Hmm.. it is easier to meet people through school and that you've grown up with most of your life. I met my first boyfriend in highschool. I met my husband in nursing school. We had a little to drink though, so I think it was easier for us to start up a conversation. (I'm not condoning using alcohol..lol) Two guys that wanted to get to know me approached me on the dance floor...kinda easy to talk to each other while dancing close. I've met a few people online...
I suppose you're just going to have to step out of your comfort zone and take a risk on a lucky girl you think your interested in... The risk is worth it...the wondering is not.
Best Wishes.
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