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writes:I'm in a casual dating relationship with a guy. He recently asked me if I wanted to "keep it casual or make it a long term thing". If he asked that, does it mean he wants more or is he just curious to know what I think? Reply to this Question
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reader, mikefromms +, writes (12 May 2009):
Could be a sincere question. Would you be interested in marrying if things worked out between you? Assume the best. Well, ask him exactly what he means....
Just a suggestion.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (12 May 2009):
He probably just wants to check that you know where you stand and he's not using you.
We get HUNDREDS of questions on here saying "I'm in a casual relationship but I love him and I'm hoping that if I have sex with him a lot he's love me too...."
Girls can be really stupid about this so he wants to know you are not secretly hoping this will lead to a real relationship.
If you tell him you are happy keeping things casual till you meet a guy who you really want to be with then he can continue to have guilt free sex with you and it will all be ok.
Good Luck!! xx
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