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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Dear CupidI broke up with my bf a week back. He is verbally/emotionally abusive and always blames for everything. I guess he got relieved when i broke up with him. The problem is, i started getting jealous/nervous whenever i think about he getting married/ hving gf and being initmate with her. I dont want to call him/get back with him, but i wanted to stop thinking about these kind of stuff. Is this normal to think about ex-bf with another girl and getting jealous about it. I know he would always treat girls like trash, but still these kind of thoughts and imagination is killing me. I tried to stop thinking about him altogether and removed all the things which reminds me of him, but nothing helped. Please help me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2011): It is very early days, so I would not expect you to be over him for some time. It will take a while to get him out of your head and your system. He treated you badly so it is no great lose but he was part of your life for a while so you are bound to have these negative thoughts. Once you get yourself back on track and get on with living and enjoying life you will find he crosses your mind less and less. Give yourself time, keep busy and move forward and try not to look back.
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