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26-29,
*ohnal
writes:Ok I've tried everything to get my Ex back. Even after almost a year I can't get her out of my mind. I want to know if she loves me. She told me the other night she did. She introduced me to her family (including extended). She has discussed the future with me and when ever I talk about going away she holds me and tells me not to leave. I'm wondering if any of this could hold merit. I really do want her back she just says shes not ready for something serious when people ask her. Is is possible that she loves me still?
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (27 September 2010):
 It's possible, but it's also possible that she likes having you around without an actual commitment to you. So enjoy her friendship. If she has said she's not ready for something serious, that means that while you can do all the things that a boyfriend would do (meet the family, talk about the future, hold you, say she loves you), she is still free to keep her eyes open. She is still available.
She is having her cake and eating it too. If you don't mind, then continue with her friendship, but I wouldn't count on her taking you back any time soon. She's got a pretty sweet deal right now! Good luck, sweetness!!
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