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36-40,
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writes:I've been dating a beautiful girl for two months, everything had been going really well, we seem to want the same out of life and enjoy most of the same things, but we've'tried' to have sex twice three times and it was a disaster each and everyone!the first time as she was putting a condom on me and I just squirted straight into it as she rolled it down, another time was while we were kissing and touching and when she to pulled my pants off she noticed the highly visable wet patch on my draws and the last time I thought, if I take control it will be ok but as she lay back and I moved on top of her I lost control again and came all down her leg ...so embararassing I can tell you! Well silence and awkwardness followed each 'event' and although she stayed over each time, and nothing was said next time we met up but this time I've not heard from her since (4 days. Cant go to the doc with this one and tried mastabation before hand and practising to hold it, thinking of baseball etc... but none of its working!!I need a WOMAN'S opinion on this please (its keeping me up at night) ...will I hear from her again? , has this happened to you? what did you or would you do?
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (28 April 2010):
 Yes this has happened to me with a boyfriend. And I understand what you mean by awkward silences. I didn't want to say the wrong thing so said nothing. He was mortified so said nothing. What worked really well for us was me making him cum with a blow job or hand job and then having sex after that first cum. It also really helped us to talk about it (lots of courage needed here) as once it was out in the open it wasn't so scary.
Hey good luck with this it will get easier
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (27 April 2010):
 No, No, not baseball, ... try grandma's undies or something that is a distinct turn off.
The initial thrill of the new body to play with will wear off a bit in time tho and I am sure when you are not so worked up things will go fine. Try to relax and not put pressure on yourself.
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