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anonymous
writes:I've been friends with this guy for about 2 years. When we first met we did kinda date but not really even though I still have feelings for him despite me saying with should just be friends. Anyway recently he's been seeing this girl whose been absolutely vile to him and he comes up to me really sad and down and I'm there to pick up the pieces. So this is gonna sound really weird and like me making things up but the way he acts around me etc kinda give the impression he's sending out different signals to friendship ones. For example he has recently been kinds 'scaredy' around me like can't look me in the eyes or fumbles round his words. He also never mentions his gf at all round me but he never shuts up about her to everyone else.I know that doesn't sound like alot but it's just the general vibe he gives off is more like he did when we were dating than it's been before. Am I just making a big deal over this ? I mean I've kinda pushed the boat out before and dropped some hints to find out but he always treads around it . Reply to this Question
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reader, Kyle007  +, writes (20 March 2012):
The "vibes" are no good until he ditches his girlfiend. He may be looking to you to fill some sort of void in his life while he is miserable with his current girlfriend.
This is NOT a good beginning to a relationship for either of you.
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