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I've never had sex before. What do we do?

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Question - (23 May 2012) 4 Answers - (Newest, 24 May 2012)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Me and my boyfriend are ready to have sex. I've never had sex before. What do we have to do? What foreplay can we do before? Help me please? :/

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2012):

why do you want to jump straight to sex.no hurry..no worry.first kiss and hug and natural feelings of what you want to do (especially for him) will take over..maybe necking, touching the erogenous zones ..little oral will work fine..you should try foreplay once or twice and maybe another day you can proceed further and have full sex.or it could be the same day..whatever happens for you in a flow let it happen.:) and make sure you have safe sex.All the best for happy-sex !

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A male reader, MrMcgalliard United States +, writes (24 May 2012):

dont think about it so much! do what comes natural my dear. rub, tug, and kiss things when it feels right. we can tell you all kinds of things to do, but unless you do what feels right, the experience will be lackluster, just breathe and relax, over time you will learn from what you try and dont be afraid to explore new thoughts and ideas. (:

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A female reader, Xx-Scorpio-xX United Kingdom +, writes (24 May 2012):

Xx-Scorpio-xX agony auntSurely if you're ready for sex, you would know what foreplay turns you both on? ....

But, use hands and/or mouths on each other, kiss, cuddle, lick...just getting yourselves more and more aroused until you feel you can't stand it any longer. :) Make sure you are really wet otherwise it won't work and will hurt a lot! It won't be perfect first time and you might bleed a little. Practise makes perfect and use protection.

Good luck ^_^

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A male reader, Ell_Shikari United Kingdom +, writes (24 May 2012):

Do what feels most natural to you, your first time is always strange and scary but if you relax and just allow yourself to do what feels right then you should find that things will happen without thought. However I think that if you must know in a bit better detail I advise to begin with being intimate with your partner such as kissing and trying to relax each other then try, when your ready, moving onto foreplay such as oral or just simple touching, the if things are right just slowly work together and find a way that you will both enjoy yourselves and let natural instincts take over

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