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I've never had a boyfriend and I'm really shy, how do I approach the guy I like?

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Question - (26 December 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 27 December 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I've never had a bf and I'll be 16 in 2 months. There's this guy I like but i'm really shy. How do I get him to like me? I don't want to hear "Be yourself" or "They'll come when you least expect it."

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2007):

Hi.

I can tell you, as a male what always works for me. I like when girls talk to me and make me feel special, in the sense that I am the guy they want to be with. Also when girls talk to me about stuff that interest me really helps me feel comfortable around them.

Now every guy is different but if possible, see if you can find out the stuff he likes, such as sports, video games etc... then starting a conversation and getting close wont be so hard :).

Best of luck

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A male reader, Tiger-Spirit86 United Kingdom +, writes (27 December 2007):

Tiger-Spirit86 agony auntOne thing guys don't like is a shy girl, show confidence, find out as much as you can about the guy you like without closing him in and bombarding him with questions. Speak to him about something he likes and in the conversation pick a moment to ask him if he likes you. If he does ask him out but don't be over anxious or over confident and then you should be fine.

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