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I've made a really big mess, what should I do now?

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Question - (25 October 2008) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi,(SORRY THIS IS LONG BUT NEED ADVICE ASAP) ive split with my bf around 3 weeks ago now,i still talk to him, anyway hes now back with his ex the mother of his child ill call her sam,anyway sam she doesnt trust him and me as she thinks we are still seeing each other, well basically the other day my ex asked me if i could meet up with this guy who fancies sam, as he said he could trust me, anyway i did and the guy i meet keept asking me all these questions about them basically i ansewerd everything not thinking about it and he said nothing said will get past the conversations we had, anyway we left and i found out yesterday that after he left he went round to sams house to take her somewhere and i think he told her about the whole conversation we had AND HE SAID I COULD TRUST HIM NOT, about me not wanting my ex back and how i would like to stay mates with my ex but now sam is being very off with my ex, all i want for him is to be happy but at the moment hes not, basically ive got to meet them and this guy next weekend so that sam can talk to me basically she thinks that one of us, me or my ex are telling lies which where not, apart from i speak to him every other day when im on lunch break he said i could but not in the evenings,

anyway my ex asked me to do this as he trusts me and he doesnt trust the guy i meet the other day as he still has feeling for sam and that everything he says he lies about, the guy i meet the other day asked if i could meet him again i said yes so that i can help my ex out but i really dont trust this new guy one bit, Sams never liked me in the first place and im a bit worried about meeting her

Should i do this

Or any advice on what ive mentioned about anything above?

Please help

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