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I've lost both my bf and my fling - help!

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Question - (10 August 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 10 August 2010)
A female Uganda age 36-40, anonymous writes:

i started seeing my friends housemate......i knew i needed to stop seeing him, some how i got too comfortable and we continued seeing eachother. i promised myself no feelings involved, but i dont knw how......i am now madly in luv with him. i broke up with my boyfriend to be with him.....today he tells me he doesnt want to risk his reputation and our friendship so we should stop seeing eachother. i am so hurt, bt he will never know what he has done. so i have lost my boyfriend and my fling......i feel teribble....help me.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2010):

If you were seeing him whilst with your boyfriend,then you deserve it.You say he doesnt know how this has hurt you,but did you ever bother think how your boyfriend felt & his feelings?Very selfish of you.Karma is a bitch.Two wrongs dont make a right.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2010):

its called being selfish..you left your boyfriend to pursue a fling. Don't you know the same way you get them you lose them. Hope you learned a lesseon from this you know what you got but you don't know what your getting.. A Fling vs someone who loves you....SMH

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