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I've hurt my cousin and now I feel badly

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Question - (25 October 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 25 October 2009)
A female Ireland age 30-35, *elplessgirl08 writes:

ok here it goes im 16 and mycousin is 19 we don't see each other very often but he is very protective the other day i went ouy drinking and my ex-bf(beater) texted my cousin he got really worried and told my aunt i got really mad i told him to fuck off that i hate him and other bad stuff when i calmed down i texted to say sorry but that i thought he should cut me out of his life for a while

but now i really regret it iv texted and rang him but he wont answer pleas tell me how im suppose to get him back i really miss him i feel sick every time i think about what ive done please tell me how to get him to talk to me again please thank you

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A male reader, Red Green 0289 United States +, writes (25 October 2009):

You need to go face to face with your cousin and appologize.

Only then will you make any progress. Next time, think with a clear (unemotional head) before you whip out your phone and send a posion text message. Easy to do, hard to un-do - but you've learned that. Good luck, I'm sure that in the end this will work out.

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A female reader, OhPinkyGirl United States +, writes (25 October 2009):

OhPinkyGirl agony auntHave you left him any voice mail or anything? Try snail mail or something to just get him to converse back to you. I'm sure you've hurt him really bad but just keep trying he'll eventually talk to you again. Make sure to be genuinely apologetic. How long has it been since the incident? Maybe you should give him a little space to think about things.

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A female reader, Shiny Moon India +, writes (25 October 2009):

you really did a mistake. u need to develop more patience in u so that next time u think before acting in an instinct.

for now just wait. time will best heal u and him. later after some time u can talk to him about this.

there is no use thinking about it now and hurting ur feelings. the more u will think about this incident the more hurt you will be.

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