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*rmugoo
writes:hi i need help as I've been in and out of prisons since 17. I went to a all boys bourding school for behaving problems which I blame no one but me for that. I find it hard to have a relationship. I 've had sex but never a relationship. Can someone give me some advice please? Thank you. Reply to this Question
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reader, mrmugoo +, writes (17 March 2013):
mrmugoo is verified as being by the original poster of the questionty for your answers i went to prison for robbery i tried to get in a relationship with 1 woman i done her a candle lit dinner bubble bath and rose petals the lot i think i found it hard to open up to her and i have turned to god i read the bible and go church i've stopped drinking and doing drugs but man im lonely.
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reader, oldbag +, writes (17 March 2013):
 Hi
Sounds like your ready to grow up.You sound great to me, simply because you blame nobody for your past you take responsibility for it.
I can't say why you have never had a relationship. It starts with liking a girl enough to ask her out,to date and get to know her to share your life.Don't think about sex till you have built friendship.
Have you ever actually *asked* a girl out or do you just pull one, do the deed and vanish?
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reader, sherrig  +, writes (17 March 2013):
The prison thing, that's behind you. God says, today is the first day of the rest of your life, so start today. A relationship is you trying to make someone you care about happy, and them doing the same by you. Kindness, and loving care 24x7 is what is needed on both sides to have a good relationship. Also both should never do something to the other that they wouldn't want done to them. You paid your debt to society, doesn't matter what it was, you are a new person going down a new road, and God will help if you ask him. God Bless and good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2013): Are you talking about a man or women? I assume a women. Start with being friends and do things together and see what happens from there. It takes time to develop a good relationship. You might hit it off and maybe not. Relationships are not easy. Good-luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2013): Forget the prison and behaviour problems for one moment, what is it that you find hard about having them?
Have you tried? What's the longest you've been with the same woman or man (whichever the case may be) and are you able to build good, long lasting and healthy friendships?
Give us some more details OP.
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